|
Dating
articles by Dating Legend
How to be a top flirt?
FLIRTING: "To play at love, without serious
intentions." It is often done to arouse
sexual interest in another person. Flirting
is fun; it is just kidding around. Have the
intention of fun and nothing else. It is not
serious, so you cant do anything wrong! It
is kind of a joke about what they're doing;
with which you tease them and kid them
about. Remember: You don't have to do the
right thing, because you are just kidding.
Your FRAME OF MIND is very important in
flirting. Don't try to be a flirt. Skills of
flirting come automatically to you from your
sub-consciousness if you just loosen
yourself and have a positive approach of
mind.
Flirting Tips
1. Focus outward. Keep your attention
outside yourself, toward a particular
flirting target or toward the general social
environment. You can't flirt while you're
self-absorbed.
2. While flirting, follow up with a helpful
comment. That helps them know you are kind,
not just light-heartedly rude.
3. Body Language: Straighten up, good
posture, shoulders relaxed, arms uncrossed,
lean forward slightly.
4. Have fun. Be playful, light-hearted and
spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.
5. Compliment. Compliment your flirting
partner. The best compliments have the
element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know
that you really noticed them. Remember, your
compliments must be honest, sincere and
genuine. When you receive a compliment the
best response is merely to say Thank You!
6. Use your eyes. Whether in conversation or
across the room, look at your target's eyes
a little longer than necessary, and keep a
small smile on your own face while you do
that.
7. Smile. It is contagious. It will make you
so much more approachable. A smile lights up
your face and draws people to you.
|